Over the weekend, TGC put up a pocast in which I discuss with Collin Hansen and Mark Mellinger what it would look like to wage a narrative fight for marriage, and how we can fight for marriage and religious liberty at the same time. The more we prove to our neighbors who identify themselves as gay that we want to find a social order that affirms their human dignity and equal membership in the civil community, the less need people will feel to institutionalize gay marriage, and the sooner we can subvert the “victimhood competition” in which the group that has been victimized the most always wins.